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Our initial reaction to sad people is usually to try to cheer them up, to tell them not to look at things so grimly or so hopelessly. We encourage them to look at the bright side of life, at all the colorful, positive things around them. This is often an expression of our own needs, our own inability to tolerate long face over any extended period of time. - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, M.D. "On Death and Dying".